Loving Self in Solitude
Let me share something to The World about (LOVE) love is not in the business of life connecting over and over again. Real Love is a place of stillness and solitude of heart. I know this because of ten years of separation from society without no one to say I love in and intimate way preferring to the opposite sex. So I share this to say without the solitude of heart, the intimacy of friendship, marriage and community love cannot be creative.
Without the solitude of heart, relationships with each others easily become needy and greedy, sticky and clinging, dependent and sentimental, exploitative and parasitic, because without solitude of heart we cannot experience each other different from ourselves but only as people who can be used for the fulfillment of our own, often hidden needs.
These are the lessons of Love that one can benefit from the failures of my past relationships.. I know I'm a tough when it comes to opening for love because my lesson where life and death lessons of relationships, fatherhood and family and in the end I found love in my Inner-Self which was not far from me my whole time internal nor external.
Mr. Alphonso Bell